C is for … Corporal Punishment

Corporal Punishment!

Yea, I know, that sounds so serious doesn’t it? I would really define Corporal into a few of categories:

  • Corporal Play
  • Corporal Punishment
  • Domestic Discipline

As I Domina, did I mention how much I love a cherry red 🍒 bottom?  It makes me quite happy and feels so festive. Part of our dynamic includes some daily corporal/sensation play. Morning cuddles are typically followed by a spanking which may be my hand, a paddle or a favorite kitchen implement. I love the kitchen section of stores, especially Marshall’s and T.J. Maxx. My favorites are cutting boards that are made of Acacia or Olive wood or the little cheese serving boards, a.k.a. paddles in our household.

Bedtime spankings are especially popular in this household too! As physical touch is one of zucchini’s primary love languages, cuddles and spankings seem to go hand in hand. Again, a nice cherry bottom is ideal and both morning and bedtime spankings fall into the Corporal Play category for us.

According to Merriam-Webster’s dictionary, Corporal Punishment is

punishment that involves hitting someone : physical punishment

I use the concept of Domestic Discipline for Corporal Punishment with zucchini. Since the beginning of our M/s relationship, he has had a list of daily, weekly and occasional responsibilities. The requirements are documented in an online notebook and updated from time to time as our relationship and marriage continue to evolve.

acacia wood paddle
One of my fav paddles!

Some activities include:

  • Journaling
  • Properly greeting and addressing Lady Aana
  • Personal grooming
  • Munch etiquette
  • Documenting food and exercise in My Fitness Pal

When zucchini fails to complete activities or misbehaves, he will receive a mark on his electronic “chalkboard.” For each mark he receives 7 lashes with one of my canes. My favorite and his least favorite are my Lexan cane. It is very effective in delivering results:  pain, marks and redness. When he lapses into a repeat offense, look out.! The number of lashes is tripled and increased to 21 strokes. Just imagine missing 4 journal entries and how quickly that adds up to 84 strokes for simply one mistake. This is to discourage repeat offenses. However, even the most dedicated slaves, like zucchini, slip from time to time.

While I would say we both enjoy hard Corporal olay, neither of us enjoy a true Domestic Discipline session of Corporal Punishment with the cane. It means that I am very disappointed and he receives an intense amount of discomfort.

Here is a snapshot of one of his earliest caning sessions. This is after our first punishment session that was about 72 lashes. This is before we were married and lived together. At that time, I used his “chalkboard” to keep track of each misdemeanor and when we had the opportunity, every week or two or three, as our schedules permitted, we had a discipline session.

zucchini’s first caning!

It was an intense and painful session! I was very proud of him.

3 Comments Add yours

  1. Michael says:

    That looks crazy painful. But that’s your love and understanding between each other. Let the games begin

    1. Lady Aana says:

      Michael, it is part of our dynamic. Every power exchange relationship is unique to the people in it. z is a masochist … I realized he could take a lot from our first meeting.

      When I have played with others, I adapt my level of intensity to the submissive. It is about learning to fulfill the needs and desires of both the Mistress(Master) and slave in the relationship.

      We have a Safe, Safe and Consensual (SSC) relationship. We have safe words for a reason, even if they are never used, it is a safety net.

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